How do you make sure if she is serious about you or not?
The basic elements of a relationship involve:
- and love.
Love is why you care about each other, also why you keep in contact, and understanding leads to the growth of a relationship.
Don't understand this as something cute, but think of it scientifically, these (aforementioned) are the basic elements of a relationship; and to find out if she is serious or not, you've got to notice the following things:
1) Does she keep her word?
If you tell her to do something, does she take the responsibility to complete it, or do you have to remind her several times?
This shows her priority towards you; how much anything related to you matters. If she is very attentive and never forgets the works you appoint her to do, then she takes you seriously.
2) How many times have you been stood up - on phone or on date?
Such a thing happens with everyone, but what essentially matters is How many times? - Does she tell you that she is going to call you in an hour and then totally forget about it? - Is she late when you are meant to meet some place?
- Do you feel she gives her friends preference over you?
- Does she remember the plans you have made?
- Does she often make excuses to avoid meetings?
- Does she hang out with her friends all the time, but not as much with you?
These are all the things are very common that happen with people in relationships; and they certainly mean that it isn't serious.
3) Is she cool with you being good friends with her friends?
- Are you friends with her friends?
- Do you talk to them often?
4) Does she talk about you to her friends?
- If no, in a moment understand that you stand nowhere in her life.
5) Have you ever caught her lie about something?
- Was it some excuse to ignore you?
- Was she lying about some guy?
- Is her phone busy most of the time, and she seldom picks up your call over it?
6) Is she excited and happy when she is talking to you?
That is very important and easy way to know what your place is in her life. A girl in love with you, or into you will sound very excited and attentive while talking to you; but if she is not, then she is nearly fulfilling some duty or obligation she thinks she has with you. Notice if she wants to laugh and have fun while talking to you or not!
7) How many times a day does she call you?
This is a very easy way to find out how much she is interested in you. Don't call her and see how many times would she call you in a day. Once would mean it's her duty. Two would mean she is in a relationship. Three would mean she is into you. Four and above would mean she is crazy for you.