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Think about the following situations that mostly happen with guys: 


- She is out with her friends, it's 1 A.M. and you're waiting for her to call. 
- You don't like her smoking habits, but still because her friends do, she feels like an addict. 
- She loves to party, gets drunk and never remembers anything about that night. 
- She has 1,000 male friends on Facebook who don't even know her. 
- She has many guys who say they love her, but still she hangs with them as they are her friends. And also, she has a boyfriend who never understands why she does that! 
- Her definition of what's right and wrong never agrees with her actions. 
- You don't like her dressing sense, but still, since she loves watching Gossip Girls, she takes whatever sub-urban place she is living in as New York city. 
- She falls for hot guys in three seconds or never stops talking about How hot 'he' (anonymous) looked!
- She is greatly inspired from movies/ sitcoms/ soap operas and largely believes making out randomly in parties, getting drunk, smoking weed, etc would make her cool, or a grown up!
- She is very gullible; buys anything what a guy tells her. 
- She maintains that having guy friends is a good thing, because they are more trustworthy.
- and similar stuff
                                                                   
Now, if you know any girl who falls even in two of the above situations, she is a Bimbo.
If three or more, then relate it with the extent of dumbness. 



This is the type of girls who are pretentious. These types of girls have major personality issues, and have a strong fixation with a word called cool. Their entire lifestyle/ choices/ dressing sense etc changes with the changing definition of cool for them. These are mostly girls who move from small cities to Capital/ Metropolitan cities, in which the life they believe is happening and cool. They are generally college girls, and very much influenced by the ideas from Sitcoms, of being friends in a group and hanging out, and similar stuff. 


When do they have problems with their boyfriends?
Whenever their boyfriends try to control their lives, and are against the concept of cool (unknowingly) OR
 whenever they find that their boyfriend(s) is not cool.



How to control? 


1) Use 21st Century speech. 


2) Don't try to be her boyfriend, instead be her daddy. 
Give her the warmth of being protected. Show her that you are very mature and understanding. 


3) Focus on the mistakes she had committed in her past. 
Make them your weapon. Whenever she says she hates being guided and told what to do, first, remind her of those mistakes; second, tell her no one wants to take care of you, no one wants to even be interested in your life; you're not Queen of England. Whatever I am saying is because it's right, and your personal opinions or actions cannot change this fact.

Such type of stern and strict behavior would separate you from the over-pleasing boys she has had in the past, it would have three effects: 

- You become different from all the guys she knew or knows. 
- This will show that you're not a boy, but a man. 
- Also, you remind of a strict father; if played right, later on, she might crave for your approval. 




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9 comments:

Mayank said...Best Blogger Tips

good article

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Lol! Or stop dating girls with low self esteem....maybe date one you like and don't need to control!

tyler mcbain said...Best Blogger Tips

Dating is for chumps, its all about one night stands

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Hey nice Article I Need to ask u something i never had a girlfriend in my life i have a lot of female friends among which i know there were 1 or 2 who literally liked me a lot, but i didnt liked them or ever thought about them i am a person who believes in one woman , m not the dude kind of person jst wanna knw will i be getting a girl who is one man woman and is it possible to get sch a girl as now a days sch kind of girls are hard to find . sometimes my friendz even tease me that i dnt hav a girlfriend and all but is it really necessary to have 2 to 3 girlfriendz and ol that stuff why cant a person love 1 girl for the rest of his life why being physical wid several girls and boys is a fashion today ......jst in search of some of these kinds of answers......

How to woo Girls said...Best Blogger Tips

@AnonymousNo, you don't have to woo girls, or be a womaniser.
Everyone finds that one person he would truly love, one day.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

WHAT A STUPID FUCK!...DUDE DON'T TRY TO BE SUCH A ROMEO...YOU ARE JUST BEING A HYPOCRITE...NO ONE'S GOING TO COME KNOCKING AT YOUR DOOR LIKE THE SOULMATE CHICK FLICKS YOU'VE WATCHED...MAKE SOME EFFORT.

contemporary-philosopher said...Best Blogger Tips

what you are trying to imply on is the Orpheus complex and mostly transference.

First of all, I don't think most will agree with the definition of bimbos you've provided.

Secondly, even if some points may indicate "low self esteem" and other personality complications. you CANNOT just call them "dumb"

Third, when a person doesnt even appreciate simple reasoning, how can they even consider listening to their "mistakes" (which,i think you know, this kind of people try to erase from their memory the most) and acting like a father figure will make it worse. No one wants a parent in their spouse unless you have the above mention complexities.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Haha these comments are always adorable, just show intent without being outcome-dependent. That's how you'll get results

Mo said...Best Blogger Tips

Hey

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