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(Solution to a relationship problem by kunal.singh062@gmail.com)


What do you do or what will you do if you don't have the strength to break up? 
You'll ignore the person yet won't accept that you don't love her/ him anymore. Some people have the tendency not to be the bad guy at all - especially girls. They can't take the guilt, or the fact that they were cheating on some guy or were the one who crushed his life.
The rules are, as I have already mentioned before: 




1) Follow your instincts. 
Don't think it's nothing. Don't think that anything unusual you feel is cool, if ever you get an idea she is lying about something but because you love her more than anything, you let it go. Don't. 
Your instincts are never wrong, and if you feel ignored, that means she is trying really hard to actually make you notice that. Because in all that love, you tend to ignore all the light things. 


2) She can't take the guilt
Like I have said, girls don't want to be the bad person. So she can't just come to your face and tell you that she wants to leave you. And of course all the talks, all the pretending is making her sick. Now the reasons why a girl might do this are: 
- She is dating someone else. 
- She has found someone whom she wants to date. 
- She is simply waiting for you to say 'This isn't working anymore' someday. 
- She is waiting for you to commit a mistake out of frustration, the day she'll blow the lid. 


3) What you should do? 
If you want to play, play the game, do what she exactly doesn't expect from you to do
 - keep on being the nice boyfriend. 
- Talk to her friends, be cool to them. 
- Don't plan a meeting, but surprise her with a present and take her to lunch or dinner. 
- When you surprisingly meet, don't forget to check her cell-phone - the call register, messages, etc. 
- If you find something which is evident enough of she cheating on you, then stand-up like a gentleman, say that you could have told me like an honest human being rather than being a _____ (choose a name), and leave like a gentleman. 


If you pull this off, you'll win the break-up straight away. Trust me, there won't be any guilt, or any want to get her back as you'll be so satisfied with your performance. Give it sometime, she'll come crawling back to you.  


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25 comments:

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Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

But if i dont want break up. Is there any way by which i can make her fall for me again?? Any answer would be appreciated.
My email id is- kunal.singh062@gmail.com

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

The first problem of this is similiar with mine. Typing it now I already know the answer but still want some feedbacks. Been with this lady going 9 years. Moved out of state to be here, her hometown. miles away from my family. know no one here since moved last year june. since i moved. i barely see her. worst she doesnt reply or try talk to me for days.. weeks. show up on my doorstep one day and cries says its never over. still loves me stayed the night then boom again. first few days good contact then fades again into week or going 2 weeks. I would be the one always send msg try to talk... come to thought of it.. its always me if I stop I wonder how long. could it be never again? I always start to avoid knowing if it would happen but she say im her life. but actions dont prove the same. If i ignore or act like her. she gets pissed and say I dont care. I start talking. why is she ignoring and say she loves me? 9 years! is it because her family is holding her back as they do depend on her.. dont want to lose the headhold maid to me? she does everything for her family!! depend her so much but scared to live with me because of repsonsibility of me and two girls but we were a family for 7 half years bforer I moved up here. Help me!!!

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

I just started dating my girlfriend and she won't tell me anything and has not spoken to me in a day dump her or stay. Apparently I am smart enough to realize she loves her best friend but only likes me.and I like her alot. What could this mean I'm okay with being friends but she wants to date need girl advice bad.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Girls don't cheat as much as guys do. She might just be trying to get her boyfriends attention. I know this.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

@Anonymous

I find this incredibly hard to believe as I've been surrounded by girls who have cheated my entire life. I've never had an honest relationship, all of my girlfriends have neglected me and cheated on me. My friends, save one, have all cheated on their boyfriends. Even my mother cheated on my father. They all had some petty, selfish excuse, a reason that hardly merits cheating (just end the relationship, goddamn.)

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

I would never cheat on a guy but I think my boyfriend has. Well I don't know if I call him a boyfriend, because we not spoken for 3'-weeks. We h ad a fight and not spoken since, he said painful things and I said i know u don't me so fine I'll go. We been together 12 years. Out hurts bad.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

If the girl pulls away after confessing her feelings she wants you guys get more serious. She wants you to show her ( not only tell her) that you love her and want to be with her. she migh be confused whats goin on between you two... maybe you've been pulling away yourself lately, maybe you don't look her in the eyes when making love..

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Been going out with this girl for about a wk. Even b4 we went out I noticed she's one of those that rarley inciciates that conversation but I figured wud b different wen we went out.. Not the case. So far I'm the one that's talked to her n its been almost 2 days since we talked. I kno 2 days doesn't sound bad but it feels like shit wen u really care for the person. I'm tryin to wait n c if she attempts to talk to me but its hard to wait.. Any real honest advice ppl? Wud b greatly appriciated!

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Just hang on in there. Girls dont wanna ruin things to soon by appearing desperate or needy. Deep down either she likes u..Alot.. or not at all. Try putting ur arm around her as u sit tru dinner or something n watch her reaction. Is she pulls away, shes uncomfortable prolly cuz she dont like u that way. Goodluck

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Thank u for ur advice. I think she does like me tho cuz she had interest in me even b4 wen I wuz big, I hit 260 lbs n now I'm 200. So I kno she didn't like me for my apperance but for me. Thank u for replying

Mo said...Best Blogger Tips

100

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

OKAY but wat if she not cheating on u but u and her don't talk or see each other often and when u do they go around hugging guy friends

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

First off its very rare to see a guy complain about this. what you guys need to do is leave these gals and find others! Let me tell you I wish my guy thought this way! Your good men and deserve better. there are tons of ladies who wish they had guys like you! Congratulations on being one in a million.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Girls can be self conscious around a guy they don't match up well with as in you may be a good and honest guy, she probly feels like she cant be herself around you but wants to keep you for your safe qualities..maybe she has split desires, so she has to cover her true nature when shes infront of you. There is no magic button to manage a girls true self but it is bennificial to get t know her while standing true to your self. Dont treat her as a serious girlfriend, treat her according to how she acts. Let her earn your time by putting effort into you, which is the opposite of ignoring you.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

i might have to make a profile for this one...... COMPLETE BULLS@#$ i personally a 22 yr old male whos got allot going for him ...i cant stand being the cheater or even having one nighters peiod.. i feel like sex and everything is better without the frustration and just knowing eachother.... women love to give bj's..... to get what they want or just unthoug@h of sex turns most women on... some women need a bf to cheat on to even acchieve good sex... absolutly nuts i for one can swear i stay committed .. and give it my all... uys dont cheat like women... you usually can pick those guys right away n e ways......
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michael said...Best Blogger Tips

Thank you for the kind words.. i been treted like dirt and i still stick around, just dont know why... kauihana@msn.com

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

I just broke up with my girl friend ...before the break up , I saw message to her friend that says'he is not the one.Iam waiting for an opportunity to present itself.Do need to fight to get her back ?

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

@Anonymous

That's not true, it was statistically proven that women cheat more and have a higher chance not to tell their mate about it then men.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

I really have open my heart to the love of my life and now it seems like she hates me more. We have a lot of things going on in our lives and she said I'm not top of her list. But I have done everything she has asked .I get mad when I don't get any affection and I blow up and even said really bad things. But when we were so happy she cheated and broke up with me because she had other things on her mind besides working about me. I'm hurting more and more everyday and she cares less everyday calling me a pussy and saying I feel sorry for myself. I don't wantto lose her but I'm sick of not being happy and not being myself. I think if I sleep with this other girl that likes me she might realise what she had and treat me better. But I'm worried about the guilt in my heart and I don't want to ruin us completely. I want to marry her and make us into a happy family. But I'm lost and I'm sick of her acting like I don't matter.when I talk an open up I'm a pussy I'm so close to just ending my life.I'm so lost..

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

@Anonymous
I don't mean to be mean but you need to just get over her...try to think about other tings that make you happy. Hangout with your friends and what not. Trust me you'll get over it.

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Thats a whole lot different with my girlfriend, she takes this pill that makes her "focus" but there is this on and off ignorance when i am around her, plus she is a druggy such as she does molly or ecstasy, and i try to tell her dont do it and she reply i hate how you try to change me; what should i do?

Anonymous said...Best Blogger Tips

Been there dude. It hurts like a bitch.

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Need help asap..ive been with this girl for 2 years now and we're engaged..but recently shes been distance but everytime we fight i get to the point when i say we're done, then she start crying hard and baggs me not to leave..like she only says she love me when i say it first or when i get mad..and her family treats her like shes a kid still, even tho we're engaged..and when shes with her family she acts like a immature teenager..like i feel like her family come first before me..i mean i left my home town and my family to be with her and its like she doesnt care..im just stuck and dont know what to do..like i love her more then anything and put her first..but she wont do the same, she said she will change but i havent seen any resaults..like i know shes 18 and im 22, but we are getting married soon, she needs to grow up.. im having second thoughts about marrying her..what would you do in this situation? Stay or leave?

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