How to find out that your girlfriend is cheating with you, or having a thought of cheating on you, or is unknowingly falling for another guy?Women lack in things such as weighing a prospect, thinking that how it might affect my relationship with my boyfriend - they don't do that. They like to keep things as long as they are normal and not affecting anything, for example: If you shout your throats out that her friend is not a nice guy, she won't be rude to him or ignore him or break her friendship until he hits on her, or in a party tries to make out with her, or dumps any of her friend like a piece of garbage.
How to understand the signals?
- The mentioning of a name (guy's) possibly the third time in a conversation
- A conversation about a guy - who she has recently met or known for long - prolonging for more than 15 minutes.
- She seems fascinated about his qualities/ his richness/ his style/ or if she is comparing you to him.
In all these three circumstances, immediately understand and take this guy as a potential threat.
Reasons:
- He is a guy.
- Need I say more?
I know this sounds really pessimistic to choose and label guys she meets under this category, but before you think anything less, answer my question:
What would you do if you have recently met a hot girl, who is totally taking a shine on you and you are single!?
Now, ask those who have experiences break -ups in which the girl was stolen by other guy, what was their fault, they'd repeatedly tell you to ward off male friends. And I am sure none of them can deny they didn't get the aforementioned signals. Guys just choose to ignore the signals because they think there is trust and loyalty and true love between them, but keeping a relationship intact is much more than just faith and trust.
How do you solve the problem?
Solution I - 21st Century Speech (This is the exact script for your situation)
Solution II - (for worst case scenario) - In this case, you have to stop the girl from talking to him; delete him and block him from her friend-list in social networking sites; also make hideous stories about him and tell them to your girlfriend's friends, and tell them to keep an eye so she doesn't talk to him again, because face it, guys are shameless, and girls when apologetic are extremely gullible.
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Thanks for the info! really needed it
Interestng!
Guys if u ever have broken up after being with your girl( however long or short) remember your feelings for her does not stay forever. U guys broke up because that was the best thing for both of you. The best way to move on is to do things which you have never done. Fr eg: long trips wid ur buddies, excelling in your grades/work place etc.(which u cldnt do whn u wer in a relatnshp. After that u will sense freedom and ull realise how easy is it to move on. If u cnt do something u wished, dnt constantly thk abt it choose something else. But remember guys never sulk over one girl. There are so many others wanting you right now for what you are. U just need to "see". So go out there, mingle with the crowd, take your efforts, opportunity will come to your door. Don't worry if your not good looking/ if your worring about your bulbous nose/ skin colour/ or looks in general altogether. LOOKS DNT MATTER! YOUR PERSONALITY DOES! Be happy, smiling and successful in life. RULE 1- "life is not fair accept it". Rule 2- "We all are born alone, n will die alone" Rule 3- "If a girl rejects you read rule 1 and try another girl" Rule 4- "U will only get a girl of you try, so dnt leave it on faith thinking she will knock on your door 1 day". Rule 6- "There is no rush, only date/hunt when your heart says that you are ready" Rule 7- "Be honest to yourself, do your homework and dont waste your time thinking about yourself and sulking over ur negetives work on your positives".
OK guys hope u felt better after reading this., remember life is unfair for all. There are ppl dying in diesease in hospitals, some dnt have legs/hands, some dnt have money, many are raped everyday, children are killing themselves..etc. Guys no matter what category you fall in we all have the rights to live an let live. So choose peace. Its only a matter of few years in this earth. Make full use of it. Dnt exploit it. Thnx. Those who like to contact me for moral support pls email me here- lovelivekarma@gmail.com
Stupid!.......thats a common sense!
If she wants to break up with you, no hideous stories will ever help us, guyz. So, if she quits on you, so be it. There'll be a better one!!!))))
its true there are many girls in the world. but some girls really cheat you like you will never know. careful guys have fun don't disturb your life's
We have sex like once every week an a half. Is she cheating?
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